The Other Man

A few posts back I alluded to something I had ordered online. Well that something is the Snoogle. It's a pregnancy body pillow that is a wonderful indulgence. I've had trouble with sleep in the past, and I knew that working around an ever growing belly would affect my sleep that much more. I read some reviews, and found the Snoogle to be the most worth the money spent. Body pillows are expensive, but it is totally worth it! I am a tummy sleeper, but now those days are gone. and I'm even at the point now where I am supposed to sleep only on my sides and not on my back. When I roll over it either wraps around behind me, or in front of me. Plus I don't have to readjust extra pillows all night (between the knees, under the belly, behind the back etc.). I imagine the Snoogle will only be more of an asset as the months tick by. I really can't recommend it enough. We are going away this weekend, and I am dreading two nights without Snoogle. We call it the "other man" because it's so big, and is literally between us.

At my appointment last week, things were pretty routine- pee in a cup, get weighed, have blood pressure taken, wait on noisy paper covered exam table to see the doctor. I love my OB- have I mentioned this before? We talked about how I am still throwing up, and he said "I am so sorry you're going through that." Wait what? Not, "well that's just what some women experience" or "I'm sure it will pass soon." All you really want as a pregnant woman is a little understanding, and that is just what he gave me. He really is awesome. We heard the baby's heart beat (150bpm) and this time it sounded like barking.

Speaking of baby, at week 17 she or he is getting baby fat! My favorite part. I can't wait to hold his or her fat little feet in my hands, and kiss every little baby fat roll.

The other funny thing we determined is that I have a serious case of "white-coat syndrome." I'm pretty sure I inherited my doctor's office nervousness from my dad, and my low blood pressure from my mom. If they take my bp at the beginning of the appointment it's something like 193 over 40, which is alarming. At the last appointment they took it a second time after I saw my doctor for a reading of 170 over 20. Much better. I think from now on they will be taking my bp at the end of the appointments.

Our next appointment is September 18 (only 23 days to go!) and we will get to find out the gender!!!! We will also get a closer look at baby's heart, brain, fingers and toes. I can't wait. We are very excited regardless of what the gender of our baby is, but I have had a feeling toward one side since we found out I was expecting. We'll see if I'm right!

Week 15/16 and a Special Surprise

Since I began the second trimester my vomiting increased. But the all-day nausea has nearly disappeared. I still have food aversions, and get very very angry at buffets that run commercials at 7am. I don't want to see a Salisbury Steak topped with onions and gravy while I eat cereal!

Happily, I felt the baby move this week! It was so strange. It felt like a little tiny tickle on the inside. It makes me currently imagine the baby as a sea monkey. Specifically a skinny brown monkey wearing pink floaties on each arm. Not like the rip-off sea monkey farm my friend sent away for in 4th grade. The "sea monkeys" arrived in a packet, all dried out. Not at all like the crazy dancing and swimming monkey's from the commercial. Anyway, I love feeling him or her swimming around, and every once in a while bumping into me. I even poked it the other day, and it kicked back, so precious. I wasn't quite expecting to feel movement yet, but it was a nice surprise!

I find it fun, no matter how useless, to try and guess the gender of our baby. The Chinese gender prediction chart says girl, but the thread and needle over the wrist says boy. If you don't know what these are, google them and you will find a whole world of quizzes, charts, old wives tales etc. to determine the sex. I think I'll wait for the ultrasound.

My next appointment is Friday, and I am excited though sad that I have to wait for the next appointment to know who it is that's swimming around in there!